Why Becoming Your Own Best Friend Is the Key to Your Dream Life
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Hi Friend!
We all want to create deep, long-lasting friendships that inspire us and make life worth living. We all want that dream partner or dream relationship where everyday is full of excitement, laughter, and special moments just for us. But here’s the truth most people miss:
✨ You can’t create your dream life if you’re still not treating yourself like a priority. ✨
Your dream life doesn’t begin with wishing on a star. It comes from relentlessly CHASING that star until the life you’ve always imagined starts to show up effortlessly. That life begins the moment you choose to become your own best friend!
Friendship With Yourself is the Foundation
Think of your dream life. I mean think of EVERYTHING: more travel, more creativity, more food, more random activities in new & inspiring places. All of it requires one thing: trust in yourself! Your body will tell you exactly what feels right in your career, relationships, and evironment.
The biggest element to becoming your own best fiend is to have an unwavering Trust in your inner compass. You create your dream life by incorporating things in your life that make you happy or just cutting out the things that don’t.
How many times have we sacrificed alone time to go to a party that we never wanted to go to? Or said yes to helping someone that hasn’t ever helped us? You owe it to yourself to listen to when your body tells you something isn’t fitting for you.
Remember that your deserve the best and anything less than that doesn’t deserve your attention! And I’m talking change your career, leave that partner, or prioritize alone time if you need to. Consider your desires as much as you would the desires of another person! This is where the transformation really begins.
💫 If you’re craving guidance on where to start, explore the free How to Be Your Own Best Friend ebook— it’s designed to help you shift your daily habits into ones that feel softer, lighter, and more aligned with becoming a version of yourself you’ve always wanted to be friends with. .
Self-Friendship is a Lifestyle, Not a Task
Most people hear “be your own best friend” and think it means being alone all the time, not considering others, convincing yourself you don’t need anyone else. But that’s not it!
It’s about creating a lifestyle where you and you are in partnership. Where your inner voice is your inner cheerleader and where you trust yourself enough to take risks. Where you keep promises to yourself the way you’d keep them for someone you love.
My favorite way to show up for myself is to get dressed everyday! Looking nice puts me in a good mood, and even if I'm just in a matching t-shirt and sweats set, I feel good because I’ve shown myself that I deserve to look nice no matter when I’m going or what I’m doing.
Find that one thing that gives you a little confidence boost and do it every single day! The friendships, opportunities, and adventures you attract all reflect the way you’ve already chosen to treat yourself.
How Self-Friendship Shapes Your Dream Life
✨ You stop waiting for permission. When you’re your own best friend, you don’t wait for someone else to have the experiences you’ve been dreaming about. You create them yourself!
✨ You enjoy your own company. Dream about mini vacations, curated mornings, and new experiences. Now go do it! You’'ll feel richer because you know how to savor these amazing moments regardless of having any company. .
✨ You build healthier connections. When you already give yourself love, you’re no longer desperate for scraps of it from others. Love is in your daily life and you are able to dive deep into it whenever you please.
✨ You create joy daily. Instead of waiting for a “big moment,” you intentionally indulge in small experiences like making your space aesthetic, dressing in a way that makes you feel confident, or trying new routines. You don’t need to wait to start living your dream life. Doing all of this makes life feel like a dream NOW.
Your Next Challenge! (Easy)
Ask yourself: If I was already my own best friend, what would I do for myself today?
Would you finally rest instead of pushing harder? Would you try something new just because it excites you? Would you buy yourself that little thing you’ve been putting off, not as a reward, but because you’re worth it?
This is your dream life! It’s not distant. It’s created by these small choices. And it’s happening right now.
I hope this was helpful, friend!
Leave a comment or send me an email at hello@anayamakesfriends.com and let me know what you’ve been doing to become your own best friend!